Category: Hospice News
St Barnabas Hospice announced as Charity Partner for the next Trail
We are delighted to announce that St Barnabas Hospice has been chosen as the charity partner of the Lincoln Imp Trail.
Following the success of the Barons and Knights, Lincoln Big have decided the next trail will include one of Lincoln’s most treasured symbols and mascots – the Imp.
Widely associated with Lincoln Cathedral, the Lincoln Imp has been adopted by Lincoln City Football Club and many other Lincolnshire businesses and organisations as their own. We will be working closely with Lincoln Big to make the Summer 2020 trail around Lincoln the best yet. The plans have already begun with businesses bidding to sponsor an Imp and artists are enthusiastically designing artwork to cover each one.
“This is a great opportunity for St Barnabas, not only to raise vital funds to secure more care for patients and families but we hope more people will know how and where to access our free care. St Barnabas is a local charity and we hope people who are based in Lincolnshire or plan to visit will get involved, donate and enjoy spotting the Imps.”
Hospice fundraiser urges supporters to join him in trekking Mount Toubkal for St Barnabas
Mike Pastor, St Barnabas Hospice Challenge Fundraiser, will be trekking Mount Toubkal, Morocco on 7th – 11th October 2020 and he is rallying St Barnabas supporters to join him for this adventure.
Mount Toubkal is North Africa’s highest mountain at 4,167m tall and is situated in the heart of Toubkal National Park just south of Marrakech.
The trip consists of three days trekking and allows plenty of time to take in the unique culture of Morocco. The ascent up Mount Toubkal is a great introduction to mountaineering adventure and it is an excellent experience for those with good health and fitness.
As you ascend, you’ll hike through juniper forests and alpine meadows. The views from the summit are spectacular; you will experience stunning 360-degree panoramic views that extend as far as the Sahara Desert.
Mike said:
“The Toubkal Trek promises to be a once in a lifetime challenge. We will experience the most beautiful views on our ascent to the summit, and we can really immerse ourselves into the culture with village visits and hearty, locally-cooked meals. Come and join the team, let’s climb a mountain together!”
If you would like to join Mike in taking part in the Toubkal Trek, you might be surprised at the low registration fees.
Mike said:
“It will only cost you £99 to register for the Toubkal Trek, we will cover the rest: flights, camping, food, guides and any support that you will need. All we ask is that you raise a minimum of £1,650 for the Hospice.
“With a whole year to fundraise, you can easily smash this target and have a lot of fun with it in the process. I will be there every step of the way to support you with fundraising materials, ideas, advice and training.”
“Thanks to the courage and kindness of people like you, we are able to continue to provide dignified and compassionate end-of-life care to those who need it in Lincolnshire. By taking part in a challenge like this you are making memories and making a difference to the hospice care St Barnabas can provide.”
If you would like to register for the Toubkal Trek, you can sign up on our website here or alternatively, contact Mike Pastor at mike.pastor@stbarnabashospice.co.uk or 01522 540 300.
Margaret, volunteer urges people to take part in this year’s Light up a Life campaign to remember loved ones
At Christmas time each year, St Barnabas Hospice encourages people to dedicate a light in memory of a loved one, which will go on one of their Trees of Life across Lincolnshire. This year, Hospice volunteer and supporter, Margaret Norton, is inviting members of the public to join her in remembering a loved one and sharing their Christmas memories.
Margaret has volunteered in the St Barnabas Hospice Inpatient Unit in Lincoln for 25 years, and her husband, John, sadly died in the Hospice three years ago – just a year before their 60th wedding anniversary. Margaret said:
“John had been ill for some time with bowel cancer, which then spread to his spine. He was in so much pain and I was struggling to lift him, so it was such a relief when he went into the Hospice. I have volunteered in the Inpatient Unit for 25 years, so I knew he would be in good hands. At first it was strange to be on the other side of the cups of tea, but it really was the nearest thing to being at home. I felt so cared for and John’s pain was finally under control.
“John was at the Hospice when the Torchlight Procession took place that year. I remember going outside as hundreds of families came past with torches lit for loved ones. Nurses and patients came outside, and the doors were left open so that other patients on the ward, like my John, could still hear the pipe band.
“I have always known about Light up a Life and the Torchlight Procession, but after losing John they took on a whole new meaning for me. I now donate to shine a light in John’s memory at Christmas – the time of the year when family means the most to me. I also like to attend the Light up a Life church celebration in Lincoln with my family. We take so much comfort from attending the celebration and having our light, and it gives us the time and space to think about our special memories with John.”
Members of the public can join Margaret this year in remembering special Christmas memories of loved ones. St Barnabas Hospice is once again placing Trees of Life at various locations across Lincolnshire. They are encouraging members of the public to dedicate a light on one of those trees, where the memory of their loved one(s) will shine brightly.
Once you have dedicated your light, the Hospice will send out a personalised card and Light up a Life decoration for your Christmas tree at home.
Margaret said:
“My special Christmas memory of John is the makeshift Christmas trees that he would always bring in from the garden. He would cut the top off our Leylandii tree, wedge it in a bucket with bricks, and tie bits together with string!”
To join Margaret and dedicate a light in memory of a loved one this Christmas, visit stbarnabashospice.co.uk/Light-up-a-life.
New service for Lincoln’s homeless helps get to grips with grief
Lincoln’s homeless are to receive one-to-one bereavement support following a successful bid for funding by St Barnabas Hospice Trust.
The Lincolnshire hospice group partnered with YMCA Lincolnshire to bid for a Masonic Charitable Foundation and Hospice UK grant of £19,240 for the city’s first initiative for homeless people who have lost loved ones. Its aim is to provide one-to-one specialist counselling to work with them through the difficulties, challenges and emotions that can accompany bereavement.
Although there are no exact figures of how many of Lincoln’s homeless are struggling with bereavement, there is research that shows it is a problem on a national scale and there is strong circumstantial evidence that indicates it is prevalent in Lincoln. YMCA and Lincoln Baptist Church independently contacted St Barnabas Hospice to discuss the problem, which lead to the hospice putting together a bid to the Masonic Charitable Foundation for funding.
Freemason Dave Wheeler, Lincolnshire’s Provincial Grand Master of the county’s 3,500 Freemasons, said:
“People can find themselves living on the street for a variety of reasons. Life is already tough enough for the homeless, and the last thing they need is the extra burden of being alone whilst having to cope with the grief of bereavement. The Masonic Foundation’s donation means that counsellors with the right kind of skills can be available to support them at such times, and I find it reassuring that we have made this wonderful initiative possible.”
The sessions are held at the YMCA accommodation on St Rumbold Street and at Nomad emergency homeless accommodation on Monk’s Road. Caroline Killeavy, CEO of YMCA Lincolnshire, added:
“I am delighted that we can work in partnership with St Barnabas on this project. People become homeless for many reasons but one we repeatedly see is bereavement and loss. This Autumn, we will also be opening the doors of our new Nomad Centre on St Rumbolds St, the only specialist facility of its kind in Lincolnshire. We are working with a range of partners who will come together to support the wide range of needs of the homeless in this project; the bereavement sessions provided by St Barnabas will continue in this new 24 hour facility ”
Pete Crosby, Lincoln Baptist Church community coordinator, said:
“Bereavement among the homeless community is a reoccurring issue. In my opinion, without specialist bereavement support these people and people like them, will not overcome their grief and be able to get on with their lives.”
“Homeless people in Lincoln are being offered support with bereavement issues thanks to a ground-breaking service made possible by a donation of almost £20,000 from the county’s Freemasons.”
YMCA Project counsellor St Barnabas bereavement counsellor Cat Rodda, who is leading the year-long project which launched in May, has already seen positive changes in those taking part.
“These sessions provide a confidential and accessible space for homeless people, who traditionally haven’t felt able to access the hospice’s bereavement support. We are already seeing individuals start to work through and better cope with their grief and taking steps to move forward with their lives.”
In addition to the counselling, the project aims to provide bereavement training for staff at partner organisations and for homeless peer mentors in order to widen the impact of the project.
New support service for dementia patients and their families launches
St Barnabas Hospice, Dementia UK and Lincolnshire County Council join together to provide Lincolnshire with six trained health practitioners, called Admiral Nurses.
Admiral Nurses are all qualified nurses with a professional specialism in dementia. Admiral Nurses work together with families to provide the one – to one support, expert guidance and practical solutions they need to live more positively with dementia each and every day.
Their clinical knowledge and skills help prevent crisis and build carers resilience which in turn supports families to maintain quality of life and a sense of control. They also work alongside other professionals in the dementia care pathway, sharing best practice.
Sarah Bedward, Admiral Nurse at St Barnabas Hospice says;
“The most important part of an Admiral Nurse’s job is to work with the families and the person living with dementia. If we do a good job we prevent unnecessary admissions to hospital, improve people’s quality of life, help people live at home for much longer and also enhance their wellbeing
Research shows that for people living with dementia, their wellbeing and general health is affected is their carer is experiencing a lot of stress. For that reason, I’m really looking forward to working with families, helping to build positive relationships and focussing on reducing carer’s stress.”
The pilot service is supported by two leading charity organisations St Barnabas Hospice and Dementia UK and financially sustained by Lincolnshire County Council for 12 months.
Michelle Webb, Director of Patient Care at St Barnabas Hospice says;
“I am delighted to welcome the new Admiral Nurses to the Hospice. We have enjoyed working alongside Lincolnshire County Council and Dementia UK over the past year to create this two year pilot and it is a pleasure to see the team in post and the strategy being realised.
I see this as such an important development for dementia care services in Lincolnshire and I look forward to seeing it make a positive impact for our patients and their families.”
Mandy Crabtree, Admiral Nurse at St Barnabas Hospice says;
“Admiral Nursing is a service that is desperately needed in Lincolnshire. Having worked as a district nurse, I used to visit many patients and find that often either they were living with dementia or their relative was. It has such a huge impact on their whole life and their family’s lives.”
BRAND NEW Mighty Mudder Event
Get ready for some muddy fun and over 60 obstacles as St Barnabas Hospice prepares to host Lincolnshire’s first Mighty Mudder event later this year.
The Hospice has introduced the 5k obstacle course to help raise vital funds to support end-of-life care locally. The event will take place at Ancaster Leisure, Wood Lodge from 10am on Sunday, September 22, 2019.
Participants will be able to run through fields of mud, crawl through tunnels, swing through trees, slide down 50ft drops, wade through muddy water and battle their way up hills.
They will be set off in waves of 100, which they can pre-select online when signing up. There is plenty to do for friends and family members including places around the course to stand and watch.
Events Fundraiser at St Barnabas Hospice Melissa Gaffney said: “I started working for the Hospice earlier this year and I’m so excited to be launching this brand new event already. In my spare time, I often take part in mass participation sporting events, so it’s great that I can bring this passion to our event.
“Since joining St Barnabas, I’ve met so many amazing people who come together at these events to raise money in memory of loved ones, reach personal goals or to have fun. Mighty Mudder is the perfect event for those wanting a challenge that’s a little different, whether you want to raise sponsorship money or not.”
Ticket information
St Barnabas will offer two different types of ticket. Participants wanting to raise money for the Hospice will be able to pay a lower registration fee of £25 providing the pledge a minimum sponsorship of £50.
Alternatively they can pay a £55 registration fee if they decide not to raise sponsorship money. These are early bird prices and will be available for a limited time until Sunday, July 28.
Children aged 14-17 can take part for a flat rate of £10 with one adult per two children when signing up.
Fraser’s Story
One of our fantastic supporters, Fraser Oliver, who is taking on a triathlon for us, was in the top 3% of fundraisers on the whole of JustGiving for the month of May 2019! Congratulations to Fraser on this amazing achievement.
Here is Fraser’s story:
“As many of you that are reading this may know, last year I lost my father. A heart shattering event, that I never expected to deal with in my 20’s. He was a fit and healthy 54 year old, whom I cherished as a best mate and spent much of my spare time going on holidays and adventures with.
He fought a short, stoic battle with an extremely rare and aggressive cancer. So short in fact, that we had very little opportunity to get anything in place or planned for when the unimaginable happened. Fortunately for us, the incredible St Barnabas Hospice exists.
On the 30th of June 2018, he suddenly deteriorated and we were informed that he had hours to live. Knowing he would have hated to pass away in the chaos of A&E. The inspiring staff at St Barnabas went out of their way to accept him and offer all of us the peace and space we needed to let him graciously leave us.
For this, my family and I will be forever grateful and want to do anything we can to give something back. Starting with a little triathlon.
Anything you can give will be greatly received by the organisation and the people and families that they will support now and in the future.”
We’d like to say a huge thank you to Fraser! Support his triathlon on JustGiving here and help him reach his fundraising goal for St Barnabas: www.justgiving.com/fundraising/fraser-oliver



We are going to the Lincolnshire Show!
St Barnabas Hospice will be attending the Lincolnshire Show, in partnership with Age UK Lincoln and South Lincolnshire, Lincolnshire Housing Partnership, LACE Housing and Lincolnshire Home Independence Agency as ‘Lincs Independent Living Partnership’ {LILP}
The five charities will create a support hub for Lincolnshire Show attendees to learn more about their combined services that could dramatically improve independent living and living with a life limiting illness. Representatives from each charity will be on hand with tea, coffee and biscuits and information about how to get involved and access each service on Stand 11, Eighth Avenue.
Families and friends of anyone with Dementia will be given the chance to join a Dementia Friends session, which will be running on Wednesday and Thursday at 1.30pm. These short sessions are designed to educate people around Dementia and encourage Dementia friendly communities.
In addition, Lincolnshire Housing Partnership (LHP) will be demonstrating the latest ‘assistive technology products’, which promote independence and safety for Dementia patients and promoting their low level support services, living well with dementia and specialist housing available in Lincolnshire.
Bev Chapman, Business Development Officer at LHP says;
“As one of Lincolnshire’s premier providers of social housing, with 12,700 properties across the county, we aim to support the whole community. A large part of our work involves developing services, which enable people to live in a secure, safe and happy environment and our presence within the Support Hub is a reflection of that.”
LACE Housing will be showcasing its new developments for over 55s in Washingborough and Nettleham. Colleagues from the organisations will also be on hand to offer advice about its different types of affordable housing within Lincolnshire and the surrounding area, including independent living and Extra Care Schemes.
You can also find out more about LACE Housing’s award winning 4* holiday apartment in the coastal resort of Skegness, which was recently named among the country’s best seaside spots. In addition to this, plans for the new housing developments in Nettleham and Washingborough, offering specialist facilities at affordable prices will be available from the LACE team.
St Barnabas Hospice CEO Chris Wheway, Volunteer Ambassador Anita and Wellbeing Community Engagement Lead Laura Stones will be representing the county’s largest Hospice facility.
Laura Stones explains;
“St Barnabas Hospice supports 10,500 people each year, which includes our patients but their families and carers too. Our wellbeing services include complimentary therapies, welfare and benefits advice and pre bereavement support. Patients can be in our care for years and their families for much longer. We want to make sure people know we are here for them, even if their loved one has not accessed our Hospice care.
Find us at stand 11, Eighth Avenue with LILP to learn about our free services, the well-being care and how to get involved.
June is our birthday month too, so we are celebrating with Go Yellow. We will be spreading a little sunshine to get you all involved in fundraising for and celebrating the Hospice. Our Fundraisers are joining the Waterside Shopping Centre to offer some yellow themed activities perfect for the young, and young at heart!”
Debbie Kinnell, Communications and Business Development Officer from Lincolnshire Home Independency Agency continues;
‘We will be there to advise on home adaptations, improvements and repairs to help people live independently at home. We can also offer advice and support on grants, benefits and funding. We’re currently delivering three funding schemes to help ensure gas and electrical safety and keep homes warm in winter (subject to eligibility).
Michele Jolly, CEO at Age UK adds;
“It often feels as though Age UK Lincoln and South Lincolnshire is one of Lincolnshire’s best kept secrets! We are a hidden gem of support services there to advise and support older people and their families and carers. Join us at the Age UK stand for information about the vast array of services and support we have available in Lincoln and South Lincolnshire for the 50 plus age group.”
Visit the Support Hub on Stand 11, Eighth Avenue on Wednesday 19th and Thursday 20th June, at the Lincolnshire Show.
Admiral Nurse Pilot begins
I am delighted to welcome the new Admiral Nurses to the Hospice today. We have enjoyed working alongside Lincolnshire County Council and Dementia UK over the past year to create this two year pilot and it is a pleasure to see the team in post and the strategy being realised. I see this as such an important development for dementia care services in Lincolnshire and I look forward to seeing it make a positive impact for our patients and their families.”
Michelle Webb
Director of Patient Care at St Barnabas Hospice
The Admiral Nurse service will be available in Autumn. More information on how to access this support is coming soon.
Paula and Tom’s Story
“The care they gave my husband Tom and me was incredible. St Barnabas will be a part of my life forever.”
My Tom was strong, physically and mentally. In his late seventies, he was still down the gym three days a week! Bu the cancer he got from asbestos exposure robbed him of all that. By the end, he was subdued, frightened, quiet and scared.
I’d looked after him at home for most of that year – but by late October his pain was so great we had to come to the Hospice. They welcomed us as the door and we could feel the calmness, the serenity and the brightness of the ward which made it feel homely.
Our lovely nurse Emma took my hand and said “Don’t worry, we’ll make sure he’s OK.”
They found me a room, which gave us six days we had there together. I sat with him every day and when Tom was unsettled during the night they’d come and get me. On the last day they found a room so I could stay with Tom the whole time. He needed a huge cocktail of drugs, given to him through a syringe driver – I know Sue is asking people for help to buy more of these. This was a life saver for Tom.
His days at St Barnabas were peaceful and calm. When he passed, October 31st last year (three days after our wedding anniversary), I was there with him, holding his hand.
After Tom passed, I was distraught. But even after Tom’s death, the Hospice was there for me. Through their bereavement services, they held my hand, supporting me whilst i explored my feelings, in a safe space. The Hospice helped me every step of the way – from the minute me and Tom entered the Hospice, to this very day. They are now my extended family, and I am thankful for them all.
I hope everyone in the community realises how privileged and honoured we are to have Sue, her nursing team and the consultants to look after us on our journey, as well as the the counsellors that provide bereavement support – and will join me in supporting her appeal.
Paula Dean.
To find out what’s on Sue’s Wish List;
https://stbarnabashospice.co.uk/sues-wish-list/

