Trevor Mettam

Courtney Vickers & Alison Negus

Bronwen Attwell & Raymond Attwell

Margot Caborn

Janet Docksey, Norman Docksey, Pat Harvey & Glynn Harvey

Trevor Wilson

Jayne anna Fellows

Hazel Cottingham & Tony Cottingham

Robert Gadsby

Stuart Cameron

Joann Bamford

Ann Yates & Pip Van gils

Celina Leatherland

Brian Armstrong

Tony Mayor

Alan Townsend

Sarah Crowther

Pam Fell

Daniel Martland

Bernard Buttling

ERNEST CLIXBY

Penny King, Graham Maddocks & Roxy

Betty West & Keith Wheatley

Rachael Puttergill

Elaine Walker

Tracey Lynn White & Daniel Lee White

Colin Westwood, Eric Firth & Anne Firth

JAYNE LUMBARD

Trevor Mettam

From Mr. Robert Mettam

My dad, who died of covid in November 2020. We all miss you. Love always Robert, Jeanette, Nigel and Niki xxxxx

Courtney Vickers & Alison Negus

From Mrs Christina Rhodes Christina Rhodes

I miss you every day and will always love you

Bronwen Attwell & Raymond Attwell

From Ms Lucy Attwell

Together in eternity, forever loved and missed.
Cathy, Nick, Rob and Lucy

Margot Caborn

From Mrs. Elizabeth Chapman

Janet Docksey, Norman Docksey, Pat Harvey & Glynn Harvey

From Mrs Marion Harvey

Thinking of our lovely parents especially at this time of year. Always loved, always remembered xxxx

Trevor Wilson

From Mrs Janet Wilson

Trev,
Hannah, Joe and myself miss you and think about you every day.
We were so grateful for the care St Barnabas gave you.
Remembering you with love xx

Jayne anna Fellows

From Mr. Ryan Fellows

Im loving memory for my mum, I still think about you everyday and wish you were still here. I know I cant bring you back, but a piece of me went with you, The day you went away.
Love you lots, miss you loads ????xx

Hazel Cottingham & Tony Cottingham

From Miss Linda Cottingham

Another Christmas without you both, it doesn’t get any easier, I wish that we could all be together again one last time. Miss you xx

Robert Gadsby

From Mrs. Sarah Martin

Remembering a very special brother, Uncle who is deeply missed but never forgotten.
Love you lots
Your dear sister Sarah and brother in law Jon and Nephew Sam

Stuart Cameron

From Ms. Geraldine Hovey

Always in our thoughts xx

Joann Bamford

From Mrs Lynn Bamford

Miss you so much. Always love you.xx

Ann Yates & Pip Van gils

From Miss Shelley Goodwin

Forever loved, forever missed xxx

Celina Leatherland

From Mrs Olave Smith

Special thoughts of our dear daughter and sister Celina. Missed more than words can say. You are in our hearts forever. Love Mum, Sharon and family.

Brian Armstrong

From Miss Donna Armstrong

Merry Christmas dad, I love and miss you everyday.

Tony Mayor

From Miss Dawn Mayor

We miss you Dad always in our hearts

Alan Townsend

From Mrs. Dionne Bamford

Remembered dearly all year round but more so around Christmas and your Birthday time x Merry Christmas “Calan”! Xx

Sarah Crowther

From Miss Bethany Hughes

Hello, I have made a kind donation in memory of my amazing mum, Sarah and would love to share her story.

My mum was cared for by St Barnabas hospice, and stayed in the inpatient unit November-December 2024. At the age of 38 she had been diagnosed with a rare, incurable form of genetic lung cancer. Her short battle with cancer was terrible for us all to see, but the incredible care she received at your hospice meant the world to us.

One of the last memories we ever made with our mum was watching the torchlight procession together outside the unit. The staff assisted in bundling my mum up in blankets and fluffy socks and wheeled her outside to watch the light walk with her family and children. There were tears, smiles, laughter, kind words and hugs from those passing by. I am heartbroken yet honoured to be participating in the walk this year in honour of my mother.

On the 4th of December, the staff set up their conservatory to allow us to spend one last Christmas Day as a family. We laid presents under the beautiful tree, played music and ate a Christmas dinner and cakes brought in by family. My mum was able to watch her young boys and teenage girls open the presents she’d picked out for them earlier in the year, alongside being spoilt herself with lots and lots of bracelets, teddy bears and skincare! The nurses were constantly on hand to assist with pain management and ensuring my mum was comfortable throughout the day.

The staff gave it their all, from washing, brushing and drying mum’s hair to being there for a broken family in the worst moments of their life. They went above and beyond to allow us to make those last memories. The nurses constantly spoke to me and my siblings and ensured we were staying as strong as possible! Mandy stayed with us as my mum took her last breaths and I’m forever grateful that we had her support and guidance, and that she showed my mum complete compassion and gentle care right up until the end.

My mum was treated with respect and dignity until the moment she left your unit. She loved the yummy food, joking around with her nurses and watching the squirrels and birds from her window. It felt like home.

Thank you St Barnabas, we will always keep your charity close to our hearts. You have made a huge difference to our lives.

Pam Fell

From Mrs Catherine Henry

Remembering you is easy,
I do it every day.
I miss you and that never goes away.

Daniel Martland

From Mrs Victoria Martland

Daniel, Not having you with us all to celebrate Christmas is not something we will ever get use to. This year our first without you will be so hard however Ethan, Harper and I will try to smile and fill it full of laughter like you would have done. Your sense of humour is what got us all through the hardest of times. We will all use this same outlook on life at Christmas to make it as special as it can be. You will be in our thoughts and in all that we do xx You are so missed, yet still loved so much xx

St Barnabes allowed us all as a family to have that quality time. The children were able to spend time with their Dad in a comfortable and safe setting. The staff went above and beyond for us all and embraced Dans wicked sense of humour. They made him feel safe and cared for him with such compassion and dignity. We were all looked after nothing was ever too much trouble. The most important thing they did was allowed us to have some extra time and memories.

Having a light shine in honour of Dan warms our hearts and gives us some comfort.

It was never goodbye but see you soon
Every day is a Dan day
Forever loved

Always Vicky, Ethan and Harper xx

Every

Knowing we can give back to them in this way helps us all feel we are doing something when a Thank you just isn’t enough for our gratitude.

Bernard Buttling

From Mrs Carole Buttling

Loved and missed so very much.

ERNEST CLIXBY

From Mrs ELEANOR CLIXBY

THANK YOU FOR THE HAPPY TIMES WE HAD

Penny King, Graham Maddocks & Roxy

From Mr. Graham King

Betty West & Keith Wheatley

From Mrs Susan Wheatley

My dear Mum loved Christmas – it was her favourite time of year, bless her..
My father-in-law Keith was born on 23rd December – remembering him on his special day.

Rachael Puttergill

From Miss Phebe Malone

i love you forever thank you for the best Christmases i wish i could spend another with you❤️

Elaine Walker

From Mrs Bridgett Posey

We will always remember you Elaine, not just at Christmas. You, Richard, Kathryn and David were like family to us. So many happy times spent together. RIP xxx

Tracey Lynn White & Daniel Lee White

From Mr David Robinson

Colin Westwood, Eric Firth & Anne Firth

From Mrs. linda westwood

Thinking of you all this Christmas time and always.
I hope you are all together shining your stars down on us

Love and miss you
Linda xxx

JAYNE LUMBARD

From Mr ROSS LUMBARD

JAYNE,
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE XX

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