Helen Thomas

Christopher Donnor

Amber Schothorst & Hugh Goodwillie

Paul Gwynne

Cae Laxton

Hugh Fletcher

Irene Webster & Hugh Webster

Ian Smith

Sally Gallagher

Peggy Hollands

William Cadogan

Mel Trofer

Judith Ann Pounder

Chris Olney

Barry Ramsden

Roy Barnett

Sarah Crowther

Paul Guest

John Dovey

June Roberts, Margaret Carter & Joyce and Sidney Hollins

Roy Wheatley Barker

Pauline Regan & James Regan

Jayne Wyatt

Grace Barker

George and Annie Morley

Rachael Amelia Ray

Dorothy Hill

Vic Woods

Helen Thomas

From Miss Arian Thomas

Christopher Donnor

From Mr Chris Donnor

Hi dad, we are all missing you so very much. We talk about you often and remember all the memories you gave us. We look to the night sky and find your star. It twinkles down on us all and says, " Don't worry, I'm always by your side, be strong, and remember yo live life, until we can be together again.
Love you.

Amber Schothorst & Hugh Goodwillie

From Mrs. Tracy Slade

Missing you both dearly. Shine bright in the sky xx

Paul Gwynne

From Mrs. Karen Gwynne

The kindest, bravest man that I had the pleasure of being married to, putting his family first in everything he did. Someone taken from us way too soon, is missed by many but will always remain young & beautiful. X

Cae Laxton

From Miss Lois Laxton

To my beautiful, irreplaceable mum, Cae Laxton. She was the light and heart of every room and was adored by everyone who met her. We will miss her forever x x

Hugh Fletcher

From Mrs. Christine Fletcher

I will always remember our last Christmas, 2019, as being very special, we were all together for the last time.
I now know how precious every day of our 53 years together was and now what lovely memories I have for ever.

Irene Webster & Hugh Webster

From Mrs Stephanie Douglas

To my wonderful parents – Irene and Hugh Webster. The world changes from year to year, our lives from day to day, but the love and memories of you, shall never pass away. xx

Ian Smith

From Mrs Jo Beeman

You are a light in my life still. I will always be grateful for the little time we had here. Love always, Joanna xxx

Sally Gallagher

From Ms laura mangion

To my beautiful auntie Sally,
We miss you at the dinner table every Christmas. We miss your smile and presence, the way you adored the kids and your white jumpers.

We miss you so much, especially mum.

Love Laura. Luigi, Enzo and Lulu and baby Luca xxx

Peggy Hollands

From Ms Susan Hollands

Always thinking of you Mum ❤

William Cadogan

From Mrs. Helen Cadogan

Happy Christmas dad – Christmas wasn’t really your thing but you tolerated it for us :-). Miss you. Xxx

Mel Trofer

From Mrs Jill Trofer

Always talked about always loved so so missed

Judith Ann Pounder

From Dr. Colin Pounder

Another Christmas alone. Judy you were my life and only love of our 61 years of marriage. What is life to me without thee? What is life if Thou art Dead?

Colin

Chris Olney

From Mrs Jayne Olney

Remembering 40 wonderful Christmas's together

Barry Ramsden

From Mrs. Janis Taylor

My brother died at St Barnabas December 2017. Miss him so much. Will always be grateful for the care he recieved at St Barnabas xx

Roy Barnett

From Miss Lara Barnett

Sarah Crowther

From Miss Bethany Hughes

Hello, I have made a kind donation in memory of my amazing mum, Sarah and would love to share her story.

My mum was cared for by St Barnabas hospice, and stayed in the inpatient unit November-December 2024. At the age of 38 she had been diagnosed with a rare, incurable form of genetic lung cancer. Her short battle with cancer was terrible for us all to see, but the incredible care she received at your hospice meant the world to us.

One of the last memories we ever made with our mum was watching the torchlight procession together outside the unit. The staff assisted in bundling my mum up in blankets and fluffy socks and wheeled her outside to watch the light walk with her family and children. There were tears, smiles, laughter, kind words and hugs from those passing by. I am heartbroken yet honoured to be participating in the walk this year in honour of my mother.

On the 4th of December, the staff set up their conservatory to allow us to spend one last Christmas Day as a family. We laid presents under the beautiful tree, played music and ate a Christmas dinner and cakes brought in by family. My mum was able to watch her young boys and teenage girls open the presents she’d picked out for them earlier in the year, alongside being spoilt herself with lots and lots of bracelets, teddy bears and skincare! The nurses were constantly on hand to assist with pain management and ensuring my mum was comfortable throughout the day.

The staff gave it their all, from washing, brushing and drying mum’s hair to being there for a broken family in the worst moments of their life. They went above and beyond to allow us to make those last memories. The nurses constantly spoke to me and my siblings and ensured we were staying as strong as possible! Mandy stayed with us as my mum took her last breaths and I’m forever grateful that we had her support and guidance, and that she showed my mum complete compassion and gentle care right up until the end.

My mum was treated with respect and dignity until the moment she left your unit. She loved the yummy food, joking around with her nurses and watching the squirrels and birds from her window. It felt like home.

Thank you St Barnabas, we will always keep your charity close to our hearts. You have made a huge difference to our lives.

Paul Guest

From Miss Emily Guest

Christmas was always a special time between my Dad and I. Always big on traditions, we would go pick out a tree together, decorate it and the house whilst listening to Christmas music and eating mince pies!
This year marks 5 years since he passed away, and I have struggled to uphold these traditions the past 5 years, but I finally feel like I will be able to get back to them this year with the fond memories of Christmases past and smile knowing he would be happy that I can get back to enjoying a holiday that I have always loved.

Merry Christmas Dad. I love and miss you everyday. I hope that I do you proud with my Christmas tree choice!! 🙂 xxxx

John Dovey

From Mrs Lynda Dovey

Missed by his wife, children & grandchildren so many christmas memories

June Roberts, Margaret Carter & Joyce and Sidney Hollins

From Mrs Amy Hall

These people meant a huge amount to me and provided light in my life and so I want to ensure they continue to provide light to others

Roy Wheatley Barker

From Mrs. Susan Wheatley

Roy spent many happy years on his boat moored at Brayford Pool.
We remember him fondly as a charming and kind man, much missed by his family and friends.

Pauline Regan & James Regan

From Miss Rosie Troop

Jayne Wyatt

From Mr David Wyatt

The world is a sadder place without you

Grace Barker

From Miss Ebonie Barker

Merry Christmas Nana. I hope I am doing you proud at the Hospice. I love and miss you so much ❤️ xxx

George and Annie Morley

From Mrs Jacky Fridlington

Remembering two wonderful parents, always.

Rachael Amelia Ray

From Miss Lisa Frost

Being the best mummy, wife, sister, aunty, daughter and friend there ever was. Also wandering a hotel in a thong helped.

Dorothy Hill

From Mrs Catherine Elder

Remembering all the wonderful Christmases spent with my mum and all the love and laughter we shared. She is forever in our hearts and our memories, at Christmas and always xxx

Vic Woods

From Mrs. Elaine Woods

Vic you are the love of my life my soul mate and best friend. You are at peace now and the dementia can no longer torment you. Rest in peace sweetheart until we meet again, your loving wife Elaine xxx

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