I didn’t get the opportunity to hold my daughter, she was taken too soon. I’ve never stopped loving you and it will be your 21st birthday this December so I would like to take this moment to wish you the best 21st birthday ever my darling daughter love mummy xxx
Julie loved Christmas, she was a wonderful sister and friend ❤ xx
Hope you both are together, where ever you are ❤️
Second Christmas without you but you are thought about every single day. Merry Christmas Mum. Miss and love you today and every day. Xx
Christmas time was our family time, we all miss you so much..xxxxx
Never far from our thoughts .
Our first Christmas without you Dad! Miss you every day
Two years without you Judy.
Will be thinking of you both. Wish you were with us. Love always. Xx
Hello, I have made a kind donation in memory of my amazing mum, Sarah and would love to share her story.
My mum was cared for by St Barnabas hospice, and stayed in the inpatient unit November-December 2024. At the age of 38 she had been diagnosed with a rare, incurable form of genetic lung cancer. Her short battle with cancer was terrible for us all to see, but the incredible care she received at your hospice meant the world to us.
One of the last memories we ever made with our mum was watching the torchlight procession together outside the unit. The staff assisted in bundling my mum up in blankets and fluffy socks and wheeled her outside to watch the light walk with her family and children. There were tears, smiles, laughter, kind words and hugs from those passing by. I am heartbroken yet honoured to be participating in the walk this year in honour of my mother.
On the 4th of December, the staff set up their conservatory to allow us to spend one last Christmas Day as a family. We laid presents under the beautiful tree, played music and ate a Christmas dinner and cakes brought in by family. My mum was able to watch her young boys and teenage girls open the presents she’d picked out for them earlier in the year, alongside being spoilt herself with lots and lots of bracelets, teddy bears and skincare! The nurses were constantly on hand to assist with pain management and ensuring my mum was comfortable throughout the day.
The staff gave it their all, from washing, brushing and drying mum’s hair to being there for a broken family in the worst moments of their life. They went above and beyond to allow us to make those last memories. The nurses constantly spoke to me and my siblings and ensured we were staying as strong as possible! Mandy stayed with us as my mum took her last breaths and I’m forever grateful that we had her support and guidance, and that she showed my mum complete compassion and gentle care right up until the end.
My mum was treated with respect and dignity until the moment she left your unit. She loved the yummy food, joking around with her nurses and watching the squirrels and birds from her window. It felt like home.
Thank you St Barnabas, we will always keep your charity close to our hearts. You have made a huge difference to our lives.
Thinking of you all, you are in our hearts and dearly missed! You will be loved and cherished forever! Luv Pearl, Sean and Lewis xxxxx
Dad,you will be forever in my thoughts, miss you. XXX
I am dedicating this light to my Nan, Joy. She was an amazing lady who was always the light and soul of everything. We lost you recently and it is so hard that your not here. We miss you everyday and love you so much. Shine bright Nan.
She was a beautiful person and is with the angels and her loved ones that went before her.
Miss you and love you always xx
Loving memories of a muched loved Dad
Love you x
We miss you and love you all so very much at Christmas and always xxxxxxxx
Isobel loved Christmas time of year a fun time with the children. Always in our thoughts and remembered each and every day.
Merry christmas from Joseph, Grace & baby Luca to our late Grandparents. The brightest stars in the sky, we love you xxxxxx
Remembered with love
We miss you both so much. It's our first Christmas without you Nan and it won't be the same but we'll be thinking of you. We love you xx
Love you both forever. All my love
Our first Christmas without you Dad. You will always be the brightest star. We love and miss you so much xxx